Our sense of identity defines EVERY action we take!
A lot of the work that I do with clients is rooted NOT in the actions that they need to take but in WHO they are “being” in the situation they bring to our sessions.
Because who we see ourselves as in a situation defines not just the role we play but also the actions we take.
Here are some identity question I’ve asked my clients in the last two weeks
- Are you being a change maker OR someone who accepts the circumstances?
- Are you being founder OR a CEO?
- Are you being someone who is successful and has abundance OR someone who is struggling?
- Are you being a manager OR a friend?
When the role we pay changes we show up differently.
We think differently
We react differently
Because the actions we take are a direct result of who we see ourselves as in the situation.
So if you are finding yourself stressed by a situation try asking yourself, “Who are you showing up as?”
Who do you need to show up as to get the outcome you want?